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Posted By : Anthem | Comments : 46

I'm sick to death of this


Over the last few weeks this once great site has been rapidly turning into a pathetic constant slanging match. I am totally sick of it all. People have been coming on with the ONLY intention of winding others up and it's time to grow up kids. Unless this is a purposful attempt to make people leave the site, I find it rather strange that it has been allowed to go on for so long. Every comment made has been twisted specifically to cause tension, pure and simple, the so called point just stuck in to keep within the so called guidlines which seem to depend on who interprets them at that time. Free speech is one thing but this has gone beyond the joke, most of it is petty and a thinly disguised slight against ANYONE who doesn't share the same opinion.

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# Posted by Rob Redfern, Black Rose,more f... - 18/01/2010, 22:53 (GMT)

im starting to get fed up again too, the music and camraderie are what continue to keep me on what is still a superb website.


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# Posted by Bass Bloke - 18/01/2010, 23:10 (GMT)

Sorry Mark !


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# Posted by Anthem - 18/01/2010, 23:29 (GMT)

ok........so now someone posted a comment and it gets removed by someone NOT me


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# Posted by Duke Bocks - 18/01/2010, 23:46 (GMT)

twas the blog bobbies...nee naw nee naw nee naw ;0)


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# Posted by LAST GANG IN TOWN - 18/01/2010, 23:49 (GMT)

Free speech for the dumb.....


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# Posted by Bass Bloke - 18/01/2010, 23:50 (GMT)

Nuff sed Mark Nuff sed ! as they say in Leyth


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# Posted by Mark bassist in Piggery Bandan... - 18/01/2010, 23:51 (GMT)

A lot of you guys clearly know each other and I am kinda the outsider, or at least an outsider so guess im a bit detached from any pettyness that might go on, but I would say that anyone who spends enough time on here to get involved in slanging and slurring other musos or bands has become a internet user who plays a bit of music rather than a musician who uses the internet. I use this place to procure gigs and check out who is playing what and where. My god that was a liberal pipesmoking pint of dark mild rant werent it. Oh and Piggery Bandana suck big time, ha ha ha


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# Posted by mr.nwb - 18/01/2010, 23:52 (GMT)

The comment wasn't deleted by a mod. Fact


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# Posted by Wellington Hotel - 18/01/2010, 23:55 (GMT)

I agree whole heartedly, all the fun had gone and was just coming back IMO, and it took 1 blog to change the dynamics of the site again. We shouldn't have to tread on egg-shells every time we come on here. So it's high time we brought back the love and the fun and just all be friends again.

Donna .x.


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# Posted by Anthem - 18/01/2010, 23:57 (GMT)

Just odd that someone comes on, posts a comment then deletes it themselves


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# Posted by ST Photography - VIVA LA COMMU... - 18/01/2010, 23:59 (GMT)

I took my comment down. Didn't want it to be taken the wrong way. I'm taking a step back for now.


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# Posted by Duke Bocks - 19/01/2010, 00:00 (GMT)

high five anybody?..unless you're from Bolton in which case...high six anybody?..gonna be in bovver now I reckon..lol


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# Posted by mr.nwb - 19/01/2010, 00:01 (GMT)

So what do I do? Allow freeish speech? Or spend hours a day approving everyones comment and blog before it goes live? I have a full time day job + other commitments too

It's a difficult call - and had little show of hands from any people wanting to truely help out and turn this ship around. I'm not griping, but hopefully you can understand the difficult situ I'm in.


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# Posted by mr.nwb - 19/01/2010, 00:03 (GMT)

@anthem - you get an email with all comments. It's of no concern of yours if a mod or person chooses then to delete a comment. That's merely what they are... Comments


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# Posted by mr.nwb - 19/01/2010, 00:04 (GMT)

Pmsl @ duke. Haha


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# Posted by Anthem - 19/01/2010, 00:08 (GMT)

just said it was odd, thats all. Is the comment 'it's of no concern of yours' meant a different way than I'm taking it?


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# Posted by Willow (of somebig™Fish) (Reti... - 19/01/2010, 00:11 (GMT)

It appears there's a lot of people seemingly taking things personally, and I'm sure that less than 1% of comments are personal "insults" .... I post more than my fair share of what might deemed to be controversial (deemed by some, not by me) and I accept the response may always not be to my liking ... I can then choose to ignore or try and carry on a rational argument.
I try not to interject into other people's one to one comments, (don't know if I succeed or not)

Like any community we don't HAVE to love each other .. be nice if we did (not physically of course) ... and we're all allowed a little wind up as long as its done in fun ... not always an easy thing to do in writing ... but if someone take you the wrong way then walk away and ignore

and we'll all live happily ever after!!

Willow


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# Posted by mr.nwb - 19/01/2010, 00:12 (GMT)

Soz, I mean if someone deletes their comment don't take it to heart, shit happens

They could have deleted it for a zillion reasons, like a typo, or someone commented before them, thus making their post irrelevant.


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# Posted by Mark bassist in Piggery Bandan... - 19/01/2010, 00:12 (GMT)

Duke bolton folk have the usual, normal, run of the mill, unexciting, almost boring 4 fingers and 1 thumb on each hand. Your staggering ignorance of people from bolton is disgraceful. I dare you to stare eye to eye to eye with someone from bolton and say that.


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# Posted by Wellington Hotel - 19/01/2010, 00:15 (GMT)

Now lets not turn this into another tiff, Pauls right, it should be down to us as adults to think about the comments we put up on a blog, its the only way we will keep this site civil and enjoyable.

Sorry for playing the Mum card, BUT play nice :)


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# Posted by Mark bassist in Piggery Bandan... - 19/01/2010, 00:17 (GMT)

Duke bolton folk have the usual, normal, run of the mill, unexciting, almost boring 4 fingers and 1 thumb on each hand. Your staggering ignorance of people from bolton is disgraceful. I dare you to stare eye to eye to eye with someone from bolton and say that.


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# Posted by Bass Bloke - 19/01/2010, 00:17 (GMT)

Donna i do love and respect everyone nor do i slag of bands , venues or individualls at all ,i also agree that yes we were on a high from the mutual respect of each other from the recent charity day , where i might add , all genres of music got on great guns that day and there was absoloutely no bitching or petty rivalry whatsoever , and like i have stated countless times on open blogs on here, i have never ever seen it anywhere but on here, ie only virtual !
There are countless remarks that we are to clicky ! whats that all about ?
my band only started on here 9 months ago ,we never used it before that , nor needed to but we did see what a great site it was , now we didnt know anyone at all (on the site) obviousley since coming on i have made friends and found long lost friends and old band members to , but like yourself Donna you got friendly as we did , so obviousley if you want to get into the so called click,then get yourself known by posting and being friendly and not posting snide comments to piss people off.
I will talk be friendly and chew the Cud with anyone , but i wont suffer fools at all ,to old and cant be arsed anymore

Love and Peace


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# Posted by Anthem - 19/01/2010, 00:17 (GMT)

totally understand your point Willow, the thing that is bugging me though is the fact that the wind ups are not done in fun but deliberately done to cause trouble


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# Posted by Anthem - 19/01/2010, 00:18 (GMT)

thanks for clarifying mr nwb


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# Posted by Duke Bocks - 19/01/2010, 00:18 (GMT)

lol PB..the eyes have it !


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# Posted by Wellington Hotel - 19/01/2010, 00:20 (GMT)

@ Trig, I've said it before and I'll say it again

It's Nice to be Nice:)


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# Posted by Bass Bloke - 19/01/2010, 00:23 (GMT)

Yep and well respected for it to Donna
xx


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# Posted by Wellington Hotel - 19/01/2010, 00:26 (GMT)

Life's too short to argue, whether it's with people you know or don't really know (on this site)all it does is age you quicker, and I look rough enough without the extra stress !! :(


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# Posted by Duke Bocks - 19/01/2010, 00:28 (GMT)

I have the face of a nineteen year old..my missus says I gotta give it back cos Im makng a right bugger of it!


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# Posted by Mark bassist in Piggery Bandan... - 19/01/2010, 00:29 (GMT)

Treat as you wanna be treated is the only way to play.


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# Posted by Wellington Hotel - 19/01/2010, 00:31 (GMT)

@Duke - if all else fails use Olay, its the best apparently!

@Piggery - wise words sir


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# Posted by Willow (of somebig™Fish) (Reti... - 19/01/2010, 00:32 (GMT)

@Anthem .. "the wind ups are not done in fun but deliberately done to cause trouble "
then that's the time to turn the other!

I still stick by what I said last time
If you don't like it say so (civil like or even humorous)
If its repeated , say you don't like it again
If it carries on .. ignore ... easy!

Willowthesaint!!


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# Posted by Bass Bloke - 19/01/2010, 00:40 (GMT)

Anyway on a lighter note ! the next main NWB event is gonna be a Sumo Slapdown showdown held for charity between Hulk / ST / mYSELF/ and Viking ( if he has stopped running that is lol


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# Posted by Wellington Hotel - 19/01/2010, 00:45 (GMT)

I'll offer Darren up to take part as well if you like, he won't need any padding, he's got plenty already :)


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# Posted by Willow (of somebig™Fish) (Reti... - 19/01/2010, 00:52 (GMT)

Oooooooh me too ... i'll have a go at that ... after two weeks of humungous steaks, chicken and ribs and fizzy fizzy beer!!
Willowstuffed


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# Posted by Bass Bloke - 19/01/2010, 01:00 (GMT)

Its supposed to be a joke guys , you really really dont want to see me in underpants over me tights do you now ! well maybe when im pissed just maybe lol


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# Posted by Willow (of somebig™Fish) (Reti... - 19/01/2010, 01:07 (GMT)

er.. correct Trig .. I don't! I withdraw my offer!
:0)
right deffo off now
hasta lluego mes amigos!
Willow


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# Posted by Phil - MARAUDER - 19/01/2010, 07:22 (GMT)

Yeah the problem being is the written word is so open to interpretation in the first place (as history and several of my own text messages prove!) so whether it's an attempt to be humorous is not always plainly obvious. Though Mark is right, several recent posts have made no attempt to disguise their provoking nature. A lot of people on here are very passionate about what they do (which is why there are so many great bands around at the moment and obviously I include ourselves in this catagory!) so offence is easily taken. Now I can take a joke but I don't suffer fools. Unfortunately there are always going to be numptys who think they are being clever by being controversial. Politicians have made a career out of it.


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# Posted by OUT ON BAIL - 19/01/2010, 08:24 (GMT)

i agree, there are a lot of comments on here now that instantly get my back up, some people aren't happy unless they are stirring things up. Pathetic. Really puts me off coming on here anymore.


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# Posted by Mark bassist in Piggery Bandan... - 19/01/2010, 09:37 (GMT)

You will always get muppets who aint got a good word to say about anything, their life is poorer for it and its like acid eating at them, really wouldnt waste my last silver bullet on em. You are how you interact with others, spread bile and your bilious, be decent and youre a decent person, its not rocket surgery is it. So endeth the .... We have a local bloke, not a bad guitarist, who goes to watch gigs and dogs everyone who plays, how many gigs does he do? At most 5 a year, but hes a bedroom rock god. Think I can see a flaw in that cant you?


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# Posted by SKP - 19/01/2010, 09:41 (GMT)

PB - am i missing something? who would that be then?? lol xxx


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# Posted by Rob Redfern, Black Rose,more f... - 19/01/2010, 10:34 (GMT)

like anything in life the bad stuff always stands out, on here its only in the minority although it does seem to be becoming regular, however the people that are responding to it are part of it too, ive nearly responded more to some of the controversial blogs lately but if people dont pay attention to these things the stirrers will get bored.

i cant help thinking that some people on here like the sound of their own voice(typing) and opinion way too much, its the "im correct and youre not" situation and ego is playing a part


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# Posted by Rob Redfern, Black Rose,more f... - 19/01/2010, 10:43 (GMT)

on one recent controversial blog,which i completely disagreed with and angered me i thought "come on people dont even dignify this", but unfortunately sure enough after a couple of hours there were the inevitable gazillion defensive responses which i sure makes the poster feel great!!


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# Posted by anthemette - 19/01/2010, 14:41 (GMT)

altogether now, pom pom pom ....... "id like to teach the world to sing in perfect harmony, grow apple trees and honey bees and snow white turtle doves" (rock covers style!!) pom, pom, pom, rhubarb rhubarb rhubarb !! I think we should revert back to the good old "porn titles as song titles" blogs, we were all happy then !! surely we can all move along and get back to the friendly supportive community we used to be ! or maybe im just p*ssing in the wind ! :-)


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# Posted by Bass Bloke - 19/01/2010, 14:57 (GMT)

we all need a nite off , go on the piss at a great venue , and have a great big group Hug thats all of us on NWB but only fleshy types tho NO Robots


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# Posted by Northern Riot - 19/01/2010, 16:13 (GMT)

"altogether now, pom pom pom ....... "

am i the only person who read that as porn porn porn?? Ahhh, the solution to everything... ;D


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