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Posted By : Bad Horsie (Mick) | Comments : 11

to play for someone?


We played tonight at a surprise birthday event for a south african guy. It was in a double marquee in a high wind with a generator that wasn't quite powerful enough to keep the lights, lamb roast AND the PA going at the same time.

So there could have been stress. Thankfully a couple of the guests were clued up in electrickery and found a way for the DJ, sheep roaster AND band to adapt and survive. No big deal. It's part of the job.

After we played we got compliments. Fine. It's really nice to have people appreciate what you do. :o)

The most important part of the evening for me were the emotional things though. The mother put on a surprise party. Nothing unusual about that. Until you realise that she flew her sons best friend that he hadn't seen for 5 years over and kept it secret. The place was rammed full of his friends who were really nice people. It was a real pleasure to play for them. Everyone was enjoying themselves just because.

I'm in no way bigging us up. Don't feel the need to.

I know that we all enjoyed this gig particularly because we were a small part played in a very touching event. We got paid, and free food and beer, but frankly, I'd have done this gig for nothing, just because of the karma.

Has anyone else done a gig like this? Where you aren't important but feel the need to make people enjoy themselves? :o)

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# Posted by James - Metalleeka - 28/03/2010, 10:06 (GMT)

The banner charity do... great cause and was a blast to play amongst fellow NWB's


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# Posted by THE STIG - 28/03/2010, 11:03 (GMT)

when i returned from the gulf,my family and friends had a get together for me , i got up with my old band to play a couple of numbers and all i could see in the audience was little union jacks flying all around the room, it did it for me anyway.


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# Posted by Mark bassist in Piggery Bandan... - 28/03/2010, 11:09 (GMT)

A couple of years ago a very good friend of the band (self employed) had a transit van roll back over him after a handbrake malfunction, really messed both his legs up (Looking at 2 years of ops etc), so various things were happening (football cards etc etc) to raise some money. We put on a benefit gig with Big Lix, us and brass neck playing and had some sports memorabilia to auction.

Was the most emotional night ive ever been to with people bidding way way over the odds to help the guy out.

Bloke with the PA and lighting wouldnt take a penny, The club waived the fee for the room rental...

Times like that make you realise that there are decent folk out there dunnit.

Was the best Ive ever felt taking the money round to him and his missus a coupla days later.

@Bad Horsie ... your right with the karma thing.


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# Posted by Roj (Black Rose) - 28/03/2010, 12:21 (GMT)

Nice one Mick, This is what it's all about.


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# Posted by Anthem - 28/03/2010, 13:12 (GMT)

You big softie mate!
But in my book you are 100% correct in the way you feel.
I have done soo many gigs over the years for people who make you feel humble & its a privilage to play for them.
Just off now to watch Bamby ;)
Andy


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# Posted by Dresden North End - 28/03/2010, 13:20 (GMT)

We played a weddin gig and put some music on too so they didn't need a DJ. They had a CD lined up for their first dance, but the groom asked us to play somethin instead. We played Paul Weller's 'You Do Something To Me' and bride and groom were over the moon. They said it made the dance really special.
That was a big thing for us

Mark


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# Posted by 45's - 28/03/2010, 15:15 (GMT)

Me and three mates and one of my mate’s daughter ( Lucy – 15 yrs young ) formed a “band”. Learned 22 songs and did our first gig for the Charity which is very, very close to my heart, The Manchester Children’s Hospital Appeal. We did two sets of 45 mins then a bandeoke at the end. To cut a long story short, two of my sisters ( I’ve got six ) both were overwhelmed by the occasion and couldn’t get their words out when thanking us at the end of the night – both of them lost their sons to Cystic Fibrosis and were looked after very well indeed at the then, Pendlebury Children’s Hospital during their short lives. We raised £1,057 for the Charity and I’m just glad my sisters spoke at the very end of the event because I was in bits,

Rick.


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# Posted by 45's - 28/03/2010, 15:20 (GMT)

Well done Mick, glad it all turned out great in the end,

Rick.


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# Posted by OUT ON BAIL - 28/03/2010, 15:42 (GMT)

Nice stories guys, its deff what its all about !!
Paul


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# Posted by James - Metalleeka - 28/03/2010, 15:48 (GMT)

any gigs I do infront of the my little 'uns is always a heart-melter too...


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# Posted by Mark bassist in Piggery Bandan... - 29/03/2010, 12:55 (GMT)

ahhh now steelfield thats another blog entirely...seeing my 4 year old air guitaring to the final countdown at an outdoor festival last year..... trembly bottom lip??


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