Language Of Desire
At these times, if you push to get your own needs met without considering his, you will push him away. You pile on too much pressure when you insist that he meet your demands when he does not want to. If you want to succeed at dating, there are times when you have to stand back and see what he is willingly prepared to give, however disappointing that is.
When you push for what you want above what he wants, you will come across as selfish and immature, even when you are not. This may come from your expectations or from a false sense of entitlement. When you make demands that he doesn't want to meet, you are actually putting your needs above his. He will think twice before committing to a relationship where he thinks you will put yourself before him and especially if you limit his options or his freedom. There are better ways to get your needs met.